There is a line from a movie, when Coin first meets Katniss, that says, “People don’t always show up the way you want them to.”

For me, this describes how we all project onto the people we meet. Each day we meet people and, through our own need to categorize and label, we immediately box them up and either discard or fantasize them.

None of us even know what we need or what is best for us.

“You don’t always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find you get what you need.”